Let talk about downgrades “perfect” ex bf of mine.
So you think he is a downgrade? Let’s go back to the beginning of all this, how did you ask me out? Over a fb message if I remember correctly and I’m pretty sure right after you asked me out you left me to play ball. He asked me out to my face and spent the rest of the day with me. You told me you didn’t talk to any of your ex’s nor did you have any contact with them but yet you would flirt with one over twitter right in front of my face and the others you would message over fb talking about how horny she was and how perfect your dick was. In this relationship I don’t have to worry about any ex’s at all and better yet I don’t have to worry about any girl at all. Unlike you only in front of me I didn’t have to worry about girls well kinda… Except for the time you were hugging me and making cute face to the girl I told you I hated the most. And even if I had problems with any girls in this relationship let’s just say when I tell him I do it won’t be a problems anymore. But for you I would have to say it 20 million times how much I had a problem with a person, but you will still go behind my back and lie and tell me you guys never talk but you would. And when me and him have a problem we actually talk about the problems or will talk it out if we have any in the future. Unlike you we would put everything out on social networking instead of saying it to each other. When he needs help deciding something or need someone to vent on he would go to me for help and I could do the same. Unlike you, you just do it all yourself. Remember the one time we got in a big fight because I did something stupid and I kept telling you how sorry i was and stupid and all this stuff but you wouldn’t listen to me so you went to one of your friends and asked her for advice and she told you the same advice that I told you but you didn’t listen to me you listened to her. That just showed me how my word is to you over other girls. how come when she gave the same exact advice that I gave you to save our relationship her saying that advice saved our relationship but when I said it didn’t do shit. He has been there for me more then you have and he isn’t a 10 min walk away like you were. How come every night we can talk for hours and never get bored? How come there is never a day that goes by with out a smile on my face? How come when a really good friend just died he was there for me? How come me and him can laugh for hours and hours but we couldn’t? How come I don’t feel like shit all the time in this relationship? How come I don’t get lied to in this relationship? How come he doesn’t yell at me from the top of his lounges like you did to me? How come he doesn’t curse at me? How come we have trust? How come this person is nothing like you but yet he is a downgrade? What was your definition of a downgrade? Because he isn’t you so that makes him a downgrade? How come every ex says that the person you move onto is a “downgrade”? The last time I check he makes me so fucking happy, he is so freaking good looking, and more talented as you. So tell me where do you see a downgrade? All I see is good so doesn’t that make it an upgrade? Idk you tell me because obviously I’m wrong.